Member Deleted Post  

posts

Member Deleted Post


This post has been deleted by

luvwetwild2 52M  
461 posts
11/19/2017 7:06 am

I totally agree and I will boycott the site as well! Hopefully, the good folks here in blog land will pitch in as well!


pocogato12 66F  
21033 posts
11/19/2017 7:16 am

I will not condone this either!!! Please go to my private blog mailbox and lead me to the posting asap!! I will go "after" site abuse with this

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


luvwetwild2 52M  
461 posts
11/19/2017 7:21 am

I left a comment with admin. You go pocogato! What can I do to help?


HasteBeatsWaltz 50F  
1341 posts
11/19/2017 7:29 am

How long ago was it reported? Being how this site support is awful maybe they didn't get the reports yet. If so and nothing was done that's different. I also go to a d/s , kink, fetish site. That wouldn't be allowed there in a message board.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


redrockrascal 59M
17920 posts
11/19/2017 7:35 am

Hey Recal, I just looked on the Support Blog and couldn't see your comment - When did you leave it? It might still be "pending".

Also, could you post a link to the post so I can refer them to it.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 59M
17920 posts
11/19/2017 7:54 am

    Quoting  :

I found the post and posted to Site Support about the comment and the video

Here is the Site Support link Site Problems, Bug reports, Customer Feedback and Suggestions November 2017

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


TicklePlease 50F  
10942 posts
11/19/2017 8:11 am

Not sure if posting another entry in the site support blog will do anything but gum up their already-sticky system but I reported the post in question for abuse. I'm so not surprised at who the comment was from and would gladly never see that member again.

I also never go to that blog so thanks R, for pointing it out.


lyavu 45F  
1052 posts
11/19/2017 8:51 am

Sometimes men let there sexual emotions get in the way. I get cursed out and called names coz I said no .


bigblackman21221 47M  
4082 posts
11/19/2017 9:54 am

I read the comment and watched the video.

The comment will be considered his opinion and it is.

You can't get banned for posting your opinion.

It doesn't matter if you or anyone else disagrees.

The video is not his and is on another website.

Sorry to tell you this but you and practically everyone else that is complaining about his comment don't pay anything.

Your complaints will carry very little weight.

I don't agree with what he said but can see why he would have made such a comment if that scene from the movie was in his head.

Don't leave the site over a comment made by someone on another's blog.

Some people will miss you but the site won't.
They won't miss any of the other people that are complaining if they leave.

Besides, I've seen worse comments from him and others, much worse.


TicklePlease 50F  
10942 posts
11/19/2017 10:42 am

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    I read the comment and watched the video.

    The comment will be considered his opinion and it is.

    You can't get banned for posting your opinion.

    It doesn't matter if you or anyone else disagrees.

    The video is not his and is on another website.

    Sorry to tell you this but you and practically everyone else that is complaining about his comment don't pay anything.

    Your complaints will carry very little weight.

    I don't agree with what he said but can see why he would have made such a comment if that scene from the movie was in his head.

    Don't leave the site over a comment made by someone on another's blog.

    Some people will miss you but the site won't.
    They won't miss any of the other people that are complaining if they leave.

    Besides, I've seen worse comments from him and others, much worse.
I completely agree that boycotting the site isn't effective but yeah, you can get banned for posting your opinion. Whether or not it really happens is a different story.

From the site TOU: (emphasis mine)

You further agree not to use the Services to:
(a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;


Your definitions may vary but in the end, advocating for violence is against the site's terms of use.


bigblackman21221 47M  
4082 posts
11/19/2017 1:03 pm

    Quoting  :

I hope you aren't holding your breath waiting for his profile to go POOF.

You might as well pack your bags now.


sexysixties2 70F  
37615 posts
11/19/2017 1:22 pm

I've read the post and comments....I doubt you will get far with your complaint about his first comment....however it is a blatant breach of the TOU to post a link to any other site....I have reported his comment posting a link to the tubey place and suggest you and others might do the same

"Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age."
~~~ Anais Nin ~~~


bigblackman21221 47M  
4082 posts
11/19/2017 1:24 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I completely agree that boycotting the site isn't effective but yeah, you can get banned for posting your opinion. Whether or not it really happens is a different story.

    From the site TOU: (emphasis mine)

    You further agree not to use the Services to:
    (a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;


    Your definitions may vary but in the end, advocating for violence is against the site's terms of use.
I'm glad you read that and posted it.

The issue is interpretation.

He didn't threaten anybody on this site and his comments weren't directed at anyone on this site.

If he would have wrote:
If you have to tell memberX to calm down, do it once, if she doesn't , then you gotta smack some "Calm down" into the woman.

That would be a different story.


pocogato12 66F  
21033 posts
11/19/2017 1:30 pm

Okay folks I went directly to the Abuse Team and I copied and pasted the entire post to them, clearly stating my objections to them if they do not take action
on this blatant TOU violation, It may he "his opinion" but it promotes violence
and I am anti anyone who promotes violence whether it be against men or women.

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


TicklePlease 50F  
10942 posts
11/19/2017 1:52 pm

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    I'm glad you read that and posted it.

    The issue is interpretation.

    He didn't threaten anybody on this site and his comments weren't directed at anyone on this site.

    If he would have wrote:
    If you have to tell memberX to calm down, do it once, if she doesn't , then you gotta smack some "Calm down" into the woman.

    That would be a different story.
"your definitions..." = "interpretation"

glad we agree there.

It appears you're being deliberately obtuse and argumentative as you continue to use semantics to defend posts that promote violence against women. If ever there was a time to just stfu... or say "do what you gotta do," if you just can't keep your fingers off the keyboard, this would be it.


bigblackman21221 47M  
4082 posts
11/19/2017 3:07 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    "your definitions..." = "interpretation"

    glad we agree there.

    It appears you're being deliberately obtuse and argumentative as you continue to use semantics to defend posts that promote violence against women. If ever there was a time to just stfu... or say "do what you gotta do," if you just can't keep your fingers off the keyboard, this would be it.
I'm not being obtuse or argumentative and not defending anything.

I'm just trying to let folks know what i think.

We will see if his profile is here tomorrow and if those who said they will leave do so.

I'm not going anywhere,

If you want me to STFU stop quoting me.

You think you are right, I think I'm right, we'll see who's right.


Zara_thustra 55F
5306 posts
11/19/2017 5:25 pm

Reported it. His statement that a smack on the nose of a dog is not violence toward women. The video that he provided showed a man slapping a woman so hard across the face that she was knocked off her feet. And he thinks that's ok.

Yeah, he has come across as a misogynist previously.





author51 55F  
59279 posts
11/20/2017 2:55 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I will not condone this either!!! Please go to my private blog mailbox and lead me to the posting asap!! I will go "after" site abuse with this
I am with everyone on this.. Yes that commentor needed to be banned.I would have boycotted as well..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


bigblackman21221 47M  
4082 posts
11/20/2017 6:00 am

    Quoting  :

HAHA!!!
On my blog I'm right. Everyone has a right to an opinion, if you disagree with me you just have to put up with being wrong Apparently so.

Your efforts and those of others have worked. When I look at his profile i see:

Profile Not Available
Sorry, this member has removed his/her profile.

I doubt he resigned. LOL!!!

I'm glad they choose you over him and that you understood my position wasn't defending him or his comments.




Zara_thustra 55F
5306 posts
11/26/2017 6:02 pm

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    I'm glad you read that and posted it.

    The issue is interpretation.

    He didn't threaten anybody on this site and his comments weren't directed at anyone on this site.

    If he would have wrote:
    If you have to tell memberX to calm down, do it once, if she doesn't , then you gotta smack some "Calm down" into the woman.

    That would be a different story.
I believe that your interpretation is faulty.

The language in the TOU clearly states:

You further agree not to use the Services to:
(a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, *threatening, abusive, harassing,* tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;

Nobody wrote that he threatened a person. According to the site's own Terms, people cannot make threatening statements (aka comments or posts) about a gender.





bigblackman21221 47M  
4082 posts
11/26/2017 7:06 pm

    Quoting Zara_thustra:
    I believe that your interpretation is faulty.

    The language in the TOU clearly states:

    You further agree not to use the Services to:
    (a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, *threatening, abusive, harassing,* tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;

    Nobody wrote that he threatened a person. According to the site's own Terms, people cannot make threatening statements (aka comments or posts) about a gender.
It may be faulty but he is still here.

So..........


LisaLipgloss 52T  
6139 posts
11/27/2017 5:51 am

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    I read the comment and watched the video.

    The comment will be considered his opinion and it is.

    You can't get banned for posting your opinion.

    It doesn't matter if you or anyone else disagrees.

    The video is not his and is on another website.

    Sorry to tell you this but you and practically everyone else that is complaining about his comment don't pay anything.

    Your complaints will carry very little weight.

    I don't agree with what he said but can see why he would have made such a comment if that scene from the movie was in his head.

    Don't leave the site over a comment made by someone on another's blog.

    Some people will miss you but the site won't.
    They won't miss any of the other people that are complaining if they leave.

    Besides, I've seen worse comments from him and others, much worse.
Welllll, not really. You can be banned for posting an opinion. Free speech still has limits and we all have to live with censorship.

Sorry to have to tell you this (and sorry to repeat your patronising phrase backatcha but you really ask for it by using it ) but some people donate their content to the site, just as you donate your credit card, so the site can monetise it to dumb male assholes, with a popup promising them they can "get laid tonight." Perhaps that's what brought you here. If the women, who may nor may not have a free Gold membership thanks to the clickbait they've provided, were to leave in numbers, all you'd have for your credit card donation would be a bunch of penis extension and cartoon porn ads. But the site won't care as long as you keep donating.

While a protest may not be effective, the number of people who left after the security leak was most certainly a kick in the balls and changes were made. The protest against the bullying of Nicelipss66 didn't get the site to do much but it got Sandra to leave. Job done and good riddance.

I dont' agree with what you said but I can see why you said it. Heathen G does the same thing, believing contrariness is smart, when it's really just kneejerk reactionism.

Remain silent if you don't think speaking out is effective but make it across the board and shut up about protest being pointless, because it isn't. Oh wait, you're allowed to express an opinion. Join the club.

Walk this way.


Zara_thustra 55F
5306 posts
11/27/2017 6:49 am

No, you're wrong. You're still here, but you're still wrong.





Zara_thustra 55F
5306 posts
11/27/2017 9:01 am

If you want to report this incident to the site, please contact ABUSE DEPARTMENT. Here's a link.

https://Swingers Space.com/go/page/abuse.html?abuse_status=&abuse_handle=&abuse_fromip=&abuse_level=&abuse_pwsid=&abuse_date_registered=&abuse_pid=&passthru_override=1#Swingers Space?{}





Zara_thustra 55F
5306 posts
11/27/2017 2:04 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I've read the post and comments....I doubt you will get far with your complaint about his first comment....however it is a blatant breach of the TOU to post a link to any other site....I have reported his comment posting a link to the tubey place and suggest you and others might do the same
He didn't post a link. You cannot post a link on this site. He posted an address. A link is active. This is not active.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Iu6jOEBSlU





villagePolly 60M
25 posts
12/7/2017 3:32 pm

I get the overwhelming impression that 'The Site' does not give a flying fuck about my opinion, regardless of how serious a matter is.


mad864012001 68M
84 posts
12/8/2017 4:34 am

Got a question for whom ever DO you even know who the owner of this site is? and if so do you really think they would do anything ???? Why would they fix something that brings them in money even if it is broken !!!!


Become a member to create a blog